The measure of Jonathan’s commitment to David was his willingness to give up the throne that was rightfully his. The measure of David’s commitment to Jonathan was his unwillingness to do anything to make the throne his own. Both Jonathan and David demonstrated selflessness in their relationship; consequently their friendship has become the standard by which all friendships are judged.
“‘Don’t be afraid,’ he said. ‘My father Saul will not lay a hand on you. You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you..’”
–1 Samuel 23:17 (NIV)
Lord Jesus, help me to always prefer my friend above myself. Give me the love to lay down my own goals in favor of his. In Your holy name I pray. Amen.